While sniffing around on El Universal, one of Mexico’s biggest news sources, I ran across a column in which women have written to Cecilia Rosillo (sexy profile pic included, who studied in a famous Mexican University) to pose various sexual inquiries, among them: “Is oral sex normal too?”, “Sex with adolescents” (an 18 year old asking if it was safe to have sex with his 17 year old girlfriend, or if that might cause cysts, etc), and my personal favorite “Lesbian, Me?!” In the last question, a 28 year old woman admits to very little sexual interest for 8 months, only to meet a new female colleague, want to go to bed with her, and wonder if all of a sudden she’s a lesbian. The good “scholar’s” response states that one does not “turn into” a lesbian, but it’s something that’s been around one’s whole life and that if she hadn’t noticed it by now, she most likely was not a lesbian. If her desires persist, she should see a sex therapist, especially since that would mean having to tell her son. (more…)
THINKING SEX 